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A1. Laj has been helping people unite as couples since 1979. Over 4,000 + compatible introductions are sent out every year, resulting in innumerable happy marriages in the United Kingdom and other parts of the world. Moreover, Laj is a full time organisation solely in the matrimonial field and its free Advisory and Consultation Service is accessible to all, whether one is a member or not.
A2. The success of a marriage bureau may be measured on the following four points:
- The length of its establishment. The longer it has been operating successfully, the more reliable it becomes in the eyes of the public.
- If it is a full time organisation, solely in matchmaking, so as to be able to answer queries satisfactorily and attend its members' requirements promptly and efficiently?
- Staff dedication to work hard and achieve success as soon as possible honestly and efficiently.
- Whether it has its full time address. Can a person, for example, visit the bureau personally one day to sit down and discuss matters for their satisfaction? Some organisations only have P.O. Box No addresses, which is a facility just for collecting the post, and no one from the bureau is available there.
Laj has all these above qualities, which makes it a reliable marriage bureau.
A3. Everyone at Laj gets a Personal Service, which means the bureau will take keen interest and make every effort to help achieve results. The bureau treats all its members equally and offers a one quality personal service to all. We do not believe in operating additional and more expensive services like Special Personal Service, Platinum Service, Diamond Service, Gold Service, etc., as some agencies do and charge high fees to pocket the extra money. It discriminates amongst members, as those who have paid more money get better service and those who have paid just the right money to find a partner get second class service. That must stop and there must be one service and same fees for all. Our fees are reasonable and service is superb with excellent result. Members/parents are advised to maintain regular contact with the bureau, informing their views after they have spoken on phone or met amongst themselves. Visit 'Registration Fees' for the amount one has to pay to become a member.
A4. Marriage between two people is a very important step in their lives. It involves life long union and future commitments. It may be advisable that you seek elders' advice and blessings by involving them in the process at some stage. Many people bring them in the picture from the very beginning. Elders can sense if there is anything suspicious which you have not been able to detect in the other party. Or may be they can encourage you to go ahead as they have found all matching qualities which will make married life a great success. The ultimate decision should, however, by yours.
A5. Show your positive nature when meeting someone. Think positive and be in an upbeat style. Be honest about whatever you say. Relax and don't be too intense. Do not over criticise something that is discussed. People who are in demand are likeable and fun to have around. If you are too obsessive, others will tend to avoid you and choose someone else.
We all have tremendous potentials. We all like to obtain good results from our efforts. Most of us are willing to work hard and pay the price that success and happiness demand.
An intelligent conversation brings relaxation to the mind. People with similar ideas and a win/win attitude will have intelligent conversations and this will attract them to each other. Feel positive and others will think you have lot to offer. A face that never smiles is not very appealing to others. A smile brings great attraction and other people will assume that you are happy to see them. This will attract them towards you and they will like to spend more time with you. This is how relationship develops and stays on solid footings.
A6. Stop communicating or meeting if the other person:
- Does not keep to the facts or statements made earlier, but give inconsistent and different versions about their age, qualifications, profession, employment, living accommodation, etc.
- Avoids answering reasonable and straight forwards questions, though asked repeatedly.
- Makes claims that seem extraordinary, or contradictory to what you already know about them.
- Does not fancy introducing to their friends and relatives, even though it was not your intention to go for it.
- Makes critical and disrespectful remarks or physical inappropriate behaviour.
- Loses temper and displays frustration quite often and tries to dominate and control you; think they are always right and will not listen to reasonable arguments.
A7. Most of our members are highly qualified and based in the UK and other parts of the world, as has always been the case with Laj Marriage Bureau International since 1979. Other categories of members, such as business people, technicians or office workers, are also our members in large numbers. Both of them will have ample choice to find their partners.
A8. Some members do not supply their photographs to the bureau, as it is entirely their decision. Photographs supplied along with the Registration Form are for bureau's use only, which will help the staff in selecting the partners. These are neither passed on nor shown to anyone, whether they are our members or not. The bureau will return the photographs, on request, as and when required by the members.
If members wish to see the photographs of each other before they decide to meet, they may do so by exchanging these amongst themselves with their mutual arrangements on returnable basis. Bureau does not play any part in the exchange of photographs by the members. Some members, however, do not fancy parting with their photographs, as they like to know about each other on telephone or discuss face to face at a meeting.
A9. Our fees are very reasonable and the service is superb with excellent results. When you tick the first box in the fees column of the registration form, you pay £275 now and £150 within seven days of the registration of marriage. And if you tick the second box, you pay £325 now and nothing after the marriage. You actually save money by paying the second way, i.e. by ticking the second box. Membership lasts for eighteen months. Fees once paid are neither refundable nor transferable.
We do not believe in operating additional services like Special Personal Service, Platinum Service, Diamond Service, Gold Service, etc., as some agencies do and charge high fees to pocket the extra money. It discriminates amongst members, as those who have paid more money get better service and those who have paid just the right money to find a partner get second class service. That must stop, there must be one service and the same fees for all as practised by us.
A10. Stop contacting them. If they contact you, say plainly, politely but firmly that you do not wish to take the matter any further as compatibility does not exist. You have every right to keep yourself away from someone who does not meet your requirements.
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