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| Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) |
Q1 What attracts me to join Laj Marriage Bureau International?
Q2 Should I involve my elders at some stage in this marriage proposal?
Q3 Are your members worldwide holding varied jobs?
Q4 Do Multi-Colour/Cultural Marriages take place in Laj?
Q5 What qualities should I exhibit to be more successful when meeting others?
Q6 What should I be aware of to stop dealing with some members?
Q7 Do you have one annual fee policy for all members?
Q8 How are introductions arranged?
Q9 Where do meetings take place?
Q10 Are Laj services confidential?
Q11 Do I have to complete the whole registration process?
Q12 Do I have to attach a photograph with the registration form?
Laj has extensive experience in the matrimonial field, having served Asian and other communities since 1979. Rich in membership list of people from UK, USA, Canada, Europe, Africa, Australia, India and other parts of the world, Laj has successfully arranged thousands of ever lasting marriages. Members are of all ages, religions, castes, colours, professions, etc. settled in various parts of the world. You will, therefore, be tempted to take a plunge to start a new and lovable married life by joining Laj Marriage Bureau International. Services are confidential and compatible introductions are sent either by e-mail or letters in plain envelopes.
Marriage between two people is a very important step in their lives. It involves life long union and commitments. It may be advisable that you seek elders' advice and blessings by involving them in the process at some stage. Many persons bring them in the picture from the very beginning. Elders can sense if there is anything suspicious which you have not been able to detect in the other party. Or may be they can encourage you to go ahead as they have found all matching qualities which will make married life a great success. The ultimate decision should, however, by yours.
In some cases, people may like to give a surprise to their loved ones after they have, on their own, found partners of their dreams
Our members come from all walks of life, religions, castes, marital status, nationalities, etc. They are professionals and non-professionals, from executives to average earners, occupying all sorts of jobs. They are technicians, sales persons, shopkeepers, office clerks, social workers, home makers, etc., and go up to occupy highly professional positions as barristers, solicitors, doctors, medical consultants, dentists, pharmacists, scientists, researchers, executives, IT consultants, chartered accountants, architects, general managers, company directors, chief administrators, teachers and professors, diplomats, politicians, business people including exporters and importers, etc.
Our members are primarily Asians of Indian origin from the United Kingdom, but they are also of different nationalities from other parts of the world, including India, U.S.A., Canada, South/North America, Europe, South/East Africa, Middle/Far East, Pakistan, Australia and elsewhere.
Yes they do. Advancement in lifestyle and with the changing patterns the way society is living, Asian people are now coming forward in choosing their life partners from different races and colours, especially the white people. Asians mostly seek partners of their own origin in their home counties/countries, but of lately, they have been settling in multi-colour/cultural happy marriages in different parts of the world. In such an alliance, marriage of a white/brown person with an Asian partner is said to be more successful and longer lasting as the latter generally tends to possess high accommodating and dutiful nature. Many white/brown people respect Indian culture, having travelled to the Indian sub-continent and learned more about their way of life. When love and attraction towards each other is sky high, some members shift to join well settled partners from any place or corner of the world.
Show your positive nature when meeting someone. Think positive and be in an up-beat style. Be honest about whatever you say. Relax and don't be too intense. Do not over criticise something that is discussed. People who are in demand are likeable and fun to have around. If you are too obsessive, others will tend to avoid you and choose someone else.
We all have tremendous potentials. We all like to obtain good results from our efforts. Most of us are willing to work hard and pay the price that success and happiness demand.
An intelligent conversation brings relaxation to the mind. People with similar ideas and a win/win attitude will have intelligent conversations and this will attract them to each other. Feel positive and others will think you have lots to offer. A face that never smiles is not very appealing to others. A smile brings great attraction and other people will assume that you are happy to see them. This will attract them towards you and they will like to spend more time with you. This is how a relationship develops and stays on solid footings.
Stop communicating or meeting if the other person:
- Does not keep to the facts or statements made earlier, but give inconsistent and different versions about their age, qualifications, profession, employment, living accommodation, etc.
- Avoids answering reasonable and straight forwards questions, though asked repeatedly.
- Makes claims that seem extraordinary, or contradictory to what you already know about them.
- Does not fancy introducing to their friends and relatives, even though it was not your intention to go for it.
- Makes critical and disrespectful remarks or physical inappropriate behaviour.
- Looses temper and displays frustration quite often and tries to dominate and control you; think they are always right and will not listen to reasonable arguments.
Our 'Personal Service' takes care of all members on the same footing in the best possible manner, generating excellent results. We do not believe in operating different services like Special Personal Service, Platinum Service, Gold Service, etc., as practised by some bureaux which charge extra fees. It discriminates amongst members as those who have paid more money get better service and those who have paid just the right fee to find a partner get second class treatment. That must stop and there must be one 'Personal Service' generating excellent results for all members as practised by Laj.
Compatible introductions are sent either by letters in plain envelopes or emails. Members' telephone numbers and brief particulars as stated in the registration forms are exchanged to enable them make contacts. If you are not satisfied with verbal discussions on the phone, the matter ends there. More introductions follow. And if you have liked other person's attributes after having discussed topics of mutual interests, you then have the option to take the matter further by arranging a meeting at a place and time convenient to both the parties. Do not give your residential or workplace address to others until you have completely satisfied yourself about their suitability and trust. Please read our Meeting and Dating Tips which you may find useful.
On occasions members may have to wait for introductions until suitable and compatible ones are available. To send unsuitable introductions wastes everybody's time.
We leave it to members/parents where they wish to meet. When satisfied with each others particulars and the conversations made by email or phone, they may like to take the matter further by meeting at a place and time of their choice and convenience.
In most cases in Asian introductions, meetings take place in the presence of parents or other members of the family and therefore friendly atmosphere and security prevail. Some parents may allow the 'twos' to meet on their own before they themselves get involved. In some instances, people may like to give a surprise to their elders and loved ones after they have, on their own, found partners of their dreams. Many members adopt this procedure of selecting and meeting people of their choice without the initial knowledge and involvement of known people. If you are living alone, away from your elders, or you wish to take the charge of this whole affair on yourself initially, read our Dating Tips, which may be useful.
Members living long distances away, such as in different counties or countries, may like to discuss quite a few times via email or phone to establish if compatibility exists and their views are of agreeable nature. One can say, 'no, sorry, I don't think we are compatible to each other', at any time during their discussions. Or they may like to arrange for a meeting with their mutual consent and understanding.
Laj services are highly confidential. Our correspondence is either by e-mail or in plain envelopes when sent by post. Our telephone calls are confidential because we don't disclose that we are calling from the marriage bureau when contacting members, parents, etc.
Complete the registration form accurately and truthfully to the best of your ability. It is a simple and short form requiring a few minutes. Answer all the fields as an incomplete profile may not give a full picture of you and your interests. The more questions you answer, the more precise the matchmaking introductions for you can be arranged by the marriage bureau. If you have not completed the form in full, chances are you may miss out on some very suitable contacts.
This is optional and the photograph, if attached, is for bureau's use only. This will help the bureau to assess and choose the matching partners physique and look-wise. The bureau does not pass on others' photographs to members. This is left up to members if they wish to exchange photographs and the bureau does not come into the picture. Some members do not fancy sending their photographs as they may like to meet and discuss further if the distance involved is not that much long. Please read our Meeting and Dating Tips which may be useful to you, though you must use your own common sense and means which are in your best interest.
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